
Sacramental Preparation Parent Meeting: August 16th @ 4 pm in the Portico.
Registration for Sacraments opens August 16th. Deadline to register is September 9th @ 11:00 pm.
Enriching the baptized with the strength
of the Holy Spirit
For many years, the Sacrament of Confirmation at St. John—and in many parishes throughout the United States—was celebrated during the teenage years. Beginning in Fall 2026, however, the Archdiocese of Baltimore has restored the normative age for Confirmation to 9 years old (typically around 4th grade). This change reflects the Church’s understanding that Confirmation is not the culmination of faith formation, but a sacrament of initiation that strengthens the grace first received in Baptism.
Confirmation is not a graduation from religious education, a sign of becoming an adult in the Church, or the moment a young person chooses to be Catholic. Rather, through the gift of the Holy Spirit, Confirmation completes Baptism and strengthens us to live as lifelong disciples of Jesus Christ. By celebrating the sacrament at a younger age, children receive the grace and gifts of the Holy Spirit earlier, helping them navigate the important years of childhood and adolescence with a stronger spiritual foundation.
Frequently Asked Questions about Confirmation
Are 9-year-olds mature enough to be Confirmed?
In short: yes. Some of the confusion stems from misunderstandings of the theology of Confirmation.
For example:
- Confirmation is truly about one’s openness to the work of the Holy Spirit, not about how much one knows about the faith. Nine-year-olds are not just capable of this openness but are often particularly receptive.
- Many people feel Confirmation is about “becoming an adult in the faith” (similar to a Catholic version of a bar or bat mitzvah), but that is not accurate. Confirmation enables one to be a witness for Christ, and the lives of the Saints show us that young disciples are some of the most effective witnesses of all.
- Confirmation is not a choice that a person makes to “confirm” his or her faith as they enter adulthood – it is God’s action of sealing and fully unleashing the Holy Spirit already present in that person through baptism.
- Confirmation is a Sacrament of Initiation not a graduation. Baptism, Confirmation, and First Eucharist mark the beginning of our journey to understand the ever-unfolding mystery of God’s work in our lives. Some consider Confirmation a “graduation” of sorts, marking the end of formal catechesis, and that is not the case.
Faith formation is a lifelong adventure! This change makes that theological reality even more clear.
What if I don’t think my child is ready for Confirmation yet?
Spiritual readiness is an essential part of preparing for the sacraments. Most parents find that their children are spiritually ready to receive First Holy Communion around age 7 or 8. Since the Eucharist is considered the “source and summit” of our Catholic faith, a child who has received the Eucharist should be ready to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation.
Some families may hesitate because their child will miss out on the social aspects traditionally associated with teenage Confirmation—such as retreats and peer bonding. These experiences, however, are already available through our EDGE (middle school youth ministry) and LIFE TEEN (high school youth ministry), which serve youth ages 11–18. Additionally, our Faith Formation team will introduce a special discipleship retreat during the 2026–2027 cycle to serve as a bridge between EDGE and LIFE TEEN, offering a retreat experience comparable to what was previously part of our teen Confirmation program.
What if I have an child older than 9 who is not Confirmed?
We would love to help you get your child Confirmed! Since our standard age is now 9, we no longer have an annual teen confirmation program. However, we remain committed to helping families get their older children confirmed.
Please reach out to our faith formation team at faithformation@sjwest.org so we can find the best option for your family.
What documents will I need to register?
You will need three:
- A headshot of your child (so we can get to know them by name)
- A copy of their baptismal certificate (even if your child was baptized at St. John)
- A completed St. John sponsor form indicating who the sponsor will be.
What days and times do you have sessions?
We will have two options for our six sessions:
- Sundays from 3:30 – 5:30 pm
- Mondays from 5:30 – 7:30 pm
Sessions will happen on a monthly basis starting in October. There will be no sessions in December. We will also have a day retreat with the date TBD.
We will offer one Confirmation Mass in May, date TBD.
What role will my Catholic School have in preparing young people for the sacrament?
In the Archdiocese of Baltimore, preparation for all Sacraments takes place in the context of the parish. While our Catholic schools provide an excellent environment for growing in faith, preparation for and celebration of the Sacraments (particularly First Reconciliation/Penance, First Communion/Eucharist, and Confirmation) will continue to be the responsibility of pastor and parish leadership, in partnership with parents and families. Catholic school religion/theology classes will continue to supplement and amplify the formation provided by parishes.
Once my child is confirmed, isn't faith formation optional?
We’ve heard it many times that Confirmation is not graduation from religious education, and that is true. At the same time, Confirmation does indeed mark the completion of something: namely, the reception of all of the sacraments of initiation. In addition, it signifies that sufficient formation is completed for our testimony to the narrative of salvation—including the Gospel—to be shared faithfully and fruitfully with the aid of the Holy Spirit (cf. CCC 1308-1309). It also completes our initiation into the common priesthood of the faithful, so that our personal sacrifices might be more acceptable to God before the altar at the Mass (cf. CCC 1305).
However, Christian discipleship is life-long, and the goal and tasks of catechesis continue throughout our entire lives, independently of receiving all of the sacraments of initiation. We are called to ongoing conversion and ever-growing conformity to Christ, and faith formation is a necessary element of that process. Moreover, the completion of the great gift of receiving the sacraments of initiation brings about increased responsibility: “to whom much is given, much is expected” (Lk 12:48; cf. CCC 1285, 1319).
At St. John, we offer a wide variety of ongoing faith formation opportunities: Odyssey (for K-5th grade), EDGE (for 6th – 8th grade) and LIFE TEEN (9th-12th grade)

At St. John, our family-based preparation process is called Fire Fellowship. Fire Fellowship invites parents and children to journey together through prayer, conversation, hands-on experiences, and practical faith formation as they prepare to receive the sacrament. Rather than measuring success by completing a checklist, Fire Fellowship emphasizes growing in a relationship with Jesus Christ and discerning a child’s readiness to receive Confirmation.
While the normative age for Confirmation is now 9 years old, our focus remains the same: readiness over requirements. Every child grows at a different pace, and our goal is not simply to prepare children for a sacrament, but to help families continue living the life of faith after they receive it.
Questions? Contact us!
Faith Formation Team: faithformation@sjwest.org
410-848-8443